San Jose Lifestyle + Portrait Photographer

"I always feel awkward in photos."
"I don’t know how to pose."
"I'm just not photogenic."

Sound familiar? As a seasoned Bay Area photographer, I hear this all the time — and let me tell you: everyone feels this way at first. The truth is, you don't need to be a model to look and feel amazing in your photos. You just need someone who knows how to make the process fun, easy, and pressure-free. Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.

💡 How to Help Camera-Shy Clients Feel Comfortable During a Photoshoot

Start with casual conversation
I never jump straight into posing. We’ll walk, talk, and ease into the vibe. It feels more like hanging out than a photoshoot.

  1. Use movement-based prompts instead of stiff poses
    Instead of “stand here and smile,” I’ll have you do something fun: walk toward me like you’re on vacation, look at your partner and pretend you're drunk in love, or just shake out the nerves.

  2. Show a few sneak peek shots mid-session
    Seeing how great you already look boosts confidence. Most clients say, “Wait… that’s me?!”

  3. Keep the mood light and joke around
    I crack jokes, talk sh*t, and create a laid-back environment. This isn’t about perfection — it’s about capturing the real you.

  4. Celebrate your uniqueness, not perfection
    I’m not trying to make you someone else. I’m here to show you how incredible you already are, awkward moments and all.

🙌 Bonus Tips for First-Timers

Bring your favorite playlist. Music always helps loosen up the vibe.

  1. Don’t overthink your outfit. Wear something that feels you — confidence comes from comfort.

  2. Trust the process. I got you!

📍 Real Talk from Real Clients

Corinne Reich-Weiser

“We hired Casey for a photo shoot with our extended family on Thanksgiving. We were so impressed by his ability to cut through our awkwardness and make us comfortable and capture the candid moments in such a beautiful way. The final pictures are truly special, and Casey’s command of lighting and framing really shines through. These photos will be treasured and we look forward to working together again!”

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